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Am I wrong here?

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holidaysareoverated · 06/08/2015 20:52

Husband has been drinking at a work event this afternoon. From past experience I know it was highly likely he would end up staying out and not tell me.out. So I called him and said " look if you're going to stay out just tell me now and I will be fine. Don't say you're coming home and then roll in drunk later as I really don't want to row".
He stayed out for another couple of hours then called, twice, to say he was en route home. So I start dinner.... It gets later and later. I call him only to find he has met another friend and gone off to another pub on his way home. He didn't bother to let me know and I'm so pissed off. He can't see what he has done wrong and is claiming that I said he could go out.

Am I wrong to be annoyed?? I did say he could go out but he told me twice he was on his way home. He can't then change his mind and not even bother to let me know!?

OP posts:
Jan45 · 07/08/2015 11:35

The relationship is long dead, why are you flogging it, he has zero respect for you, will not take on any responsibility and tells you that your feelings are wrong, what more can he do to show you he doesn't give a fuck.

Tell him seriously you want him out or at least do something to start the balling rolling re you separating, it's a crap way you are living.

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