We have four sets of grandparents between us as our parents are divorced. At a family event recently my mother hogged the children so much that they other sets didn't get much time with them at all. She is a very overbearing/strong/dominant (narc possibly) character and loves to be the centre of attention.
I don't know how to handle the situation because DM is so ridiculously sensitive that WW3 might break out if I said anything to her, if past incidents are anything to go by.
I've not said anything to the other parents because I don't feel I should take responsibility for her behaviour but I know they are a bit upset by it. They would never expect me to do anything about it either as they know it's her, and not me. They don't speak up or step in either - mainly I think because DM is pretty intimidating and very clever about comandeering a situation so that it's difficult to do so.
So it's this weird situation where DM dominates every fucking family event and no one says anything yet everyone is annoyed or upset by it.
Gaaaaaah.
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DM dominates my DC so other GPs don't get a look-in
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Yukky · 05/08/2015 15:05
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