Work colleague's 'd'h on pof

[TangledUpInGin]

It's definitely him. No doubt about it. She's not mentioned anything about being separated, or splitting up with him. Would you keep out of it or let her know?

Don't do anything anonymously, it's not fair to have her wondering who knows, on top of finding this out. Unless you really don't like her and think she needs a bit more to worry about .

Just take her aside and blurt it out, then give her space. Obviously comfort if she needs it. Then never speak of it again to her or anyone at work, unless she initiates.

Can you go with saying you're giving her a heads up that someone has put a profile of her DH on pof, thought you should let her know in case it's someone having a (bad) joke at his expense. And def emphasise that you've not told anyone else!

I wouldn't tell her, I would stay out of someone elses relationship and not interfere.

I have never been on POF, so would have no idea if my DH or anyone else I knew was on it. I suspect this woman is in the same boat. I'd tell her. It's her life and she deserves to have all the facts so she can make decisions for herself.