Sorry this is fresh from a row, and not as crucial as some of the other threads I've seen here, but I have to vent!!
I am due to go out with work on Thursday night in London - first night out since I had my second son, who is now 15 weeks. We also have DS1, who is 2. I am really looking forward to it, will be the last time I see lots of these old friends, have bought new clothes for it, and am staying out in a hotel so avoid travelling back drunk. DH at first really supportive of me going, staying home from work on Friday to look after the kids etc.
However, what i knew would happen has happened - as the night approaches he has dropped comments here and there, implying I shouldn't go - he put the kids through bath and to bed on Monday for the first time when i went to the doctors and it was really hard work for him and I think he is now shitting himself about Thursday - "DS2 has a cough, he's really ill, he'll be impossible to put down", "DS1 will ask where you are and get upset" etc etc. Now I feel like I shouldn't go at all!
All I need is for him to accentuate the positives and not mention the negatives. DS2 has a cough but he is fine! It won't kill them not to see Mummy for 14 hours! He is making me feel guilty and I won't enjoy it if I feel bad and I am livid with him for doing this even though I KNEW he would! He goes out every Friday night for two hours to the pub, during bath and bed time by the way so I do that alone at least one night every week.......