Ex had an affair and left me a few years ago. I got on with my life etc. he comes back and has changed loads wanting me back. He has worked hard to be the man I want, but I don't want him.
He's in a bad place, disowned his friends when the affair came out and he has no life. I think he's depressed.
His loneliness has led to him pushing for more contact with our dd - it's already pretty much equal. I've felt pressured in to agreeing to this due to the guilt of me not wanting to give it a go.
How come I stop caring about him in this way?