BI-SEXUALITY IN RELATIONSHIPS??

[kittylette]

Does anyone one have experiences of this (whether its you thats bi, or your partner)? and how does it affect your relationship?

Oh no, are you sure you want to post another thread in relationships???

lol,

Kittylette, I thought it was going to be our little secret?

well, seeing as though your sleeping with my hubby, its only fair i get some too

Let me guess, your dh wants you to sleep with a woman and let him watch?
Usually ends in trouble from what I hear.

And you are better than him, that's true

why do you ask, kittylette?

fgs, kitty.

find a sex site.

no, im bisexual, have always been - i fancied women wayyy before men,

i was just wondering how others cope? having a side of you that needs to be repressed?

geez expat, tis only a question

im hardly asking for emails of tit photos, lmao

Thats a bit harsh expat

nope, just me then, lol

i wouldn't be awfully surprised if people were fighting a bit shy of you after your last 'let's get everyone talking' thread, kitty. if you're serious about getting some support with this issue then i'd maybe leave it awhile and post again.

oh, no im ok, im not after any support thanks - im fine with it and so is my DF,

just thought it would be an interesting discussion,

xx

well... im not sure the "liking women" side is supressed in a relationship, if your say married, you dont look at other blokes if your straight, so if your married an Bi, youdont look at men or women... I wouldnt imagine you would be married to fulfill the men bit, then have a female partner to fulfill the women bit? Does that make sense??

i see your point quootie,

but ive never had a relationship with a woman so do feel repressed

the same way i would if i was still a virgin and hadnt slept with a man,

its two completely different things you see

when you say relationship is that a euphemism for sex?

are you in a serious relationship atm?

I know a married woman, she has a female lover. No problems in the relationship as far as I know..

How do you know you are bisexual kitty if you have never had a relationship with another woman?

beacause i am totally attracted to women, alot more so than men, but i love my partner to death, so cannot go there! although he wouldnt mind, i couldnt justify it

and firefly, would you ask a virgin how she knows she is straight be cause shes not slept with a man yet?

No, I wouldn't. But it just isn't the same. A virgin will have had no sexual experiences, you have.

if totally attracted to women...how have you been able to supress this and have this fantastic and fulfilling and very sexual relationship with DH? not having a go...genuinely interested...although i am very tired so if i don;t post again tonight it is because i am asleep!

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I really don't see why it is a problem.

My dp is bi. It has absolutely nothing to do with our relationship. It means he fancies (and has dated) people of both sexes. That's it. He's relationship now is with me. He has chosen a partner (ireguardless of whether male/female) so therefore it doesn't matter.

I know am not bothered cos I don't see why it would affect my relationship with him.

God I wish my DH was Gay - neat and tidy, high levels of personal grooming, and no reminding me how manyyears it is since we had sex.

"cannot go there! although he wouldnt mind"

Can I just say "I'll bet he wouldn't!!" and leave it at that...