so DH and I been together 11 years married for 1 3 DC we have had a rough old year. very stressful as we both work full time and different hours so share childcare. 3 days out of the week we see each other for no longer then an hour its very very draining. as the time has gone on I seem to be the very social one one DH is more with drawn would rather sit in front of the tv then come out and socialise I think he has traits of aspergers as does my middle dc. any to cut a long story short everytime I either tell him he is a boring old fart abd needs to start showing me.more attention or example ive had a bloody brilliant weekend had a drink (probably too much tbf) with a friend then a bbq sat night which he was invited but wouldnt come , he has withdrawn from me since friday. been sleeping in the spare room like a spoilt brat. we havent had sex now for nearly 3 weeks normally its 4 times a week. I just give up to think im going to have to accept ive got to live life and do my own thing and leave him dragging behind with a face like a slapped arse.