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Personality or Passion???????

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fairyfly · 07/05/2004 10:21

Say you were single and had just been through a painful emotional year because of the split. Then you meet a man, who you get on with but not fantastically well, hes not your total match. The thing is you fancy the pants off him and he is great in bed. Do you worry about the fact there may be awakward silences if you spend too much time with him. Do you worry you may be leading him on. Do you worry about anything at all, or do you just get your well deserved oats.

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sykes · 07/05/2004 16:50

What's the jam tart school of luck? Is that me? Are you calling me a hussy? Or is it something to do with the way it lands? God I need a drink. And please free to call me a hussy.

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fairyfly · 07/05/2004 16:51

Monkey stop it? You know it sends me wild.Sykes anything any clearer? Can i just affirm here that they are oats for sykes not me. I am oatless.

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Bugsy2 · 07/05/2004 16:54

No silly, its sods law luck, as in when you drop a jam tart it always falls jam side down!!

sykes · 07/05/2004 16:58

Ah, ha. Wish it had fallen the other way up. I'm sure I'll regret those words. No, no further on, FF - what did you expect? Never mind. I really am shutting up now. And will try not to phone/text him (I CAN DO IT) when p'd. Although, I know that that works for you. Maybe you could text him for me - you're quite subtle, aren't you?

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fairyfly · 07/05/2004 17:03

Sykes, i do have his no. i'd be a bit nicer if i were you, we will just have to make sure i don't get drunk tonight, and yes i am incredibly subtle

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sykes · 07/05/2004 17:09

I'd forgotten about that. I'll call later. My w/end of 15th has been cancelled - are you going to the London thing? I could get a baybsitter, maybe???

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fairyfly · 07/05/2004 17:15

Just needed to write this somewhere and i thought this would do. I have just been informed by my mother that when you get to my age you shouldn't need to go out at night anymore. Rant.

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fairyfly · 07/05/2004 17:21

Yes i can come to London on the meet up

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littlemissbossy · 07/05/2004 17:22

FFS!!! Is your mother my MIL? Recently had similar comment from her "didn't happen in my day" that sort of thing. Hope you told her that you get as pid as a fart, fall over/show everyone in the pub your knickers, pick up different man/stranger everytime you go out, etc - that should shut her up!! Bo**s to her, go out and have a great time

sykes · 07/05/2004 17:22

Brilliant - I'll organise babysitters etc and will call you this evening. Do you think we;'re allowed on hte meet up? You'll have to be veyr well behaved next week. Going home now. Speak later.

juniper68 · 07/05/2004 17:22

blimey FF how old are you 99??

I'd keep hold of the guy for now sykes as my DH didn't rock my world at first but grew on me (But my god don't tell him that ) He's the best man in the world so it was worth waiting. Give it a bit longer if you can or maybe a short break may make you realise you miss him?

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fairyfly · 07/05/2004 17:38

I'm 29

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numb · 10/05/2004 19:00

hope you don't mind me asking spook, but how much younger is he?

numb · 10/05/2004 19:01

sorry obviously meant sykes - you see spook you are always in my thoughts!

tanzie · 11/05/2004 21:31

I'd prefer flapjacks to porridge

Lisa78 · 11/05/2004 21:33

suspiciously quiet to that question numb

I reckon he's 16

numb · 12/05/2004 10:01

lisa78 - reckon you must be right

sykes · 13/05/2004 09:10

Ha, ha, no he's 30 - I'm 41, but obviously look SO much younger.

numb · 13/05/2004 16:29

sykes, how did meeting with h go have you made any decisions yet?

sykes · 13/05/2004 16:32

Hello, Numb,it's a bit of a week. Am meeting h this evening as couldn't do earlier. We're going for a walk - bizarre. Also, have what seems like my ultimate redundancy meeting tomorrow so life will certainly be different very soon - not sure how. How are you?

numb · 13/05/2004 22:42

i am getting better every day thanks sykes. i like you have met someone but it is VERY casual. He is really nice but i doubt it will amount to anything but it is helping with the healing process. He is just very kind, great to talk to and has made me feel better about myself again.

Keep us posted and good luck xxx

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