Something happened to me last year - a wake up call maybe. Fed up with my life and seemed to be on a constant treadmill - couldn't talk to H as he would dismiss it as he usually would, didn't want to be intimate with him but did anyway to stop him moaning. Did everything round the house/work etc etc while he swanned around in his bubble.
An encounter with a colleague made me realize I was unhappy - ashamed to tell H I told him I didn't love him anymore and we had grown apart, tried to stay 'friends' while living in same house but couldn't - we argued more as communication stopped totally, I decided to move out with 2 dc's and put house up for sale - his idea as I wanted to stay in house.
Now a few months down the line I'm in my own house with dc's I enjoy it - no stress. I've met someone (ok maybe a little soon) but I enjoy his company, he asked if he could take me away and I saw no wrong I it and we booked hotels etc.
Now H has found out - I know he's angry and upset but I've had no conversation with him since I moved out. He said he was giving me the space I wanted....how was I to know this if he didn't say?!
H text me last night asking if we could sort it all out but I ignored him, I'm not sure I can pick off where we left it and carry on as he hasn't changed - his mothers been doing his laundry and his sisters been cooking his dinners!!
I think I feel sorry for him, I feel in limbo...advice please however brutal?!