Haven't seen or heard from my MIL in 9 weeks but she still nakes my blood boil. Grrr

[northerner]

Some of you are aware of how loopy she is. We haven't spoken in over 9 weeks due to her stirring loads of shit between me an SIL.

MIL has also not seen my ds or even phoned to ask how he is

BIL and SIL own her flat and pay her mortgage so she has always licked their arses over ours. Her partner is ill in hopital and will be going into a home soon so she has basically for teh last 6 months had no time for her family/grandparents.

Found out last night from SIL that MIL called her to apologise for not seeing her kids and to say she is back on for babysitting duties. |This is of course to totally win favour with them.

Now I don't want her babysitting services, she drinks far too much imo. But I am sad that ds (who adores her) is missing out, she clearly chooses their kids over him and alays has.

She is also having a relationship with her dead best friends huuby. She only dies 4 months ago. And as she has power of attorney over her dp's money she is drawing out £300 every 3 days from his account as she thinks she deserves it for looking after him all these months

I hate the woman, and feel I should tell her in no uncertain terms what an evil woman she is.

Don't know why I'm typing this, just need to let it all out I think.

Northerner, this might sound silly, but can you physically let go of this anger? May be worth a try. Write down a list of the things you hate about her - say about twenty - on slips of paper. Then read and destroy each slip (setting fire to it is best IMO but that might not be practical).

I know it won't stop her being so annoying (understatement of the millenium) but it might help you a little. This is eating you up isn't it

You definitely need to let it all out. Don't let the silly woman get to you in this way. She upsets you a lot, doesn't she?

I know your DS is upset about her seeming to prefer her other grandchildren and that upsets you but you can't control how other people behave.

What about arranging one definite day every fortnight for DS to see MIL?

Or what about your parents - could you enlist them to make a real fuss over DS on a regular basis so that he feels less rejected?

If she's withdrawing £300 every few days, why does she need your SIL to pay the mortgage? Sounds like she's got quite a lot of disposable income!