I don't think my boyfriend likes me much

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And I don't know what to do?
I get the feeling that he thinks he's doing me a favour by being with me. I'm "nothing special" apparently. Well I know I'm not bit surly my boyfriend is meant to think I'm special to him at least?
It just hurts a lot because I don't know what's wrong with me and whu he just doesn't care about me.
Even when DS was norn, when I came back from hospital (day 4) a couple of hours after we got home, he fucked off to his mums house for a good nights sleep cause he was "tired" even though he had all the other nights to sleep and I had just had a fucking baby I was more tired than him ffs he says "its not all about you, I was really tored" and "you expect to be treated like a princess. You want me to be a perfect boyfriebd" or "just because you had a baby you think its about you" no I don't, I just want him to actually care about me for once.
That was 2 years ago almost and nothing has changed really.
It hurts a lot because I feel like everyone else's boyfriends treat them great, the act as if they are so happy with their girlfriends and so lucky to be together, I feel like mine just tolerates me. I dunno what's wrong with me. :(

You can manage so much better in your own! If you are managing an open university course whilst looking after a baby alone then imagine what you can achieve without the dead weight!!

Op you sound awesome. Ditch the stupid prat immediately you will never look back

Even a stopped clock is right twice a day.

AKA, he is a cunt that says a good thing once in a while to keep you on your leash. Well, i say fuck him, get rid and learn to love yourself before you let anyone else into your life.

Don't be a fool and waste your life with this poor excuse of a partner. He treats you like shit, do not accept this. He sounds so disgusting, you don't deserve this.

Everybody deserves to be treated with respect and kindness. That includes you. You don't get that from him. You ask what you are doing wrong - your only mistake is staying with him. Leave. It will be awful, perhaps, for a while, and then you will heal.

I felt so sad reading how you are being treated. It sounds like you are living with a selfish, nasty lad. You could have a great future but not with this arse who throws you a few crumbs occasionally. You deserve so much more, don't waste your life on someone who couldn't care less about you.

Fuck me, OP. what a cunt he sounds. Pls dump his useless arse at your earliest convenience.

Those nice things he says - do they happen to be at the same time that he wants sex?

Another vote for 'dump him'! He sounds like a worthless turd. Your time is precious, don't waste it on him.

What a bellend. Send him back to his mummy!

You and your child deserve so so so much better!

LTB. What an utter fuckwit. You deserve better OP.