After a yr of being ignored i find this year now df is worse(dying from cancer everywhere) and repeatedly getting infections and i am working so much more hardly ever seeing dh for nights a t a time he is making an effort,
We have been out a couple of times and he has suggested going out more even enjoying a mini break in april.
He has sorted out his hearing probs after me going on for many months about it and is getting help for his anger and back pain which doesnt help his frame of mind.He finally admitted he snaps but doesnt like taking the pills or their side effects.
He now seems genuinely concerned for Df when last yr i wasnt allowed to mention how ill he was.
I asked him if he loves me and he said of course and another time he said sometimes.
He knows how hard my work has been with 2 fulltimers yet to be replaced and alot of workplace tension and midnight finishes (one colleague said he would like to punch me in the vagina) i told him what i heard,
Maybe its pity or maybe he realises how hard the last few years have been for me (us).I hope we have now turned a corner and move forward after 28 yrs together,