Would you date a girl who lives in a flat with only lads?

[Coozo]

I dont know if im looking too much into this or not. I quite like this girl who, next year, will be living with a bunch of lads by her own choice. Because its early on Im unsure if I wanna take things further as how can you trust someone who youve only very recently started seeing? She seems sweet but she says shes not so innocent, which is cool. So what would you do?

I'm bi, does that mean if I should want a relationship I'd have to live on my own?

I sat next to a man on the bus the other day! I had to sit on my hands to stop myself from fondling him I just couldn't control myself.

I know, battleship! I have to run out of the office at lunch to nip by the bank. It's going to take me ages because I will of course have to shag every man I meet and it's two blocks away...

Surprised you can tear yourself away from all the irresistible bods in your office building, Skiptonlass.

It's tough, Annie. I make sure I have my anti man blinkers on and spray myself liberally with man repellent.

Sometimes the sheer passion of wrangling spreadsheets gets to us though and we all have a massive orgy in the break area on our chic Swedish furniture.

I lived with two very lovely lads at uni. I didn't fancy them and they told me they lived with me cos they didn't fancy me(!) I wouldn't change a thing about those years you need to get a grip

Is her name Snow White, by any chance,

I was living with four blokes when I met DH.

If you a) think you can't trust someone early on and b) think you can't trust someone who has friends of the opposite sex then frankly I don't think you are the one who needs to worry.

velour, same here. I think in our case just to be on the safe side, we should stay indoors at ALL times, ALONE, otherwise potentially we could be shagging everyone!

Of her own choice, eh? Its none of your business where she choose to live.

Good luck in finding a virgin princess who has never been allowed to interact with her fellow human beings.

You sound very controlling, and for most women, that would be a huge red flag in having anything to do with you. Your concept of boundaries is all wrong.

Skipton lass I hope you put some towels down first. Think of the poor cleaner.

Wow. Premature assumptions, instant mistrust.... what's next? Wouldn't be projecting your own behaviour onto her, would you?

If she has an interest in you, it sounds like it would be in her best interest to show you the exit from her life.

Just saying.

But could you trust her if she lived with girls? Could you trust her not to turn lesbian? All those pillow fights in their pants and synchronised periods. Best end it now.

I would, but she is definitely not your type OP as you are living in different centuries

Tippytap

I used to live with all men. Luckily I never dated anyone narrow-minded so it wasn't a problem.

I had a house shared with 3 blokes at uni. One of them was a close friend. The other two were friends. It's was fine. Just sometimes happens that way. Since then I have only shared with women. I don't think it means anything.