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New man - Putting fingers in your mouth when things get a heated in the bedroom...

36 replies

makingyourlove · 08/07/2015 16:59

Is this normal? Im not opposed to it, but just wondered if it was a common thing - I've not experienced it before.

We were cuddling and kissing and he had his arms around me, and then as I was touching him (sorry if TMI), he put his fingers in my mouth. (I didn't want him to go down below and he knew this, so perhaps that was why?).

Just curious!

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Charley50 · 08/07/2015 20:28

I do it and I don't watch porn. DP likes it and I like the taste of his fingers. (Plus yeah it's like giving a blow job without having to give a blow job )

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wafflyversatile · 08/07/2015 20:53

Finger sucking is pretty standard, IME anyway.

I had my toes sucked just the once and actually it's very pleasant indeed. I'd feel too self-conscious to enjoy it if I hadn't just bathed though.

OP get him to suck your fingers and see if you like that too.

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Bogeyface · 08/07/2015 21:27

I have been known to suck a finger and it does have the desired effect especially if its been going on a bit too long but I wouldnt like having a finger put in there iykwim.

I dont mind doing it when I want to but I wouldnt like having it shoved in, in my head it seems like it would be the hand-on-the-back of the head.

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sykadelic · 08/07/2015 22:12

If we're talking just sucking then totally normal IMO as well.

If you're talking opening mouth wide/hooking etc then THAT is porny... As long as you're okay with it I wouldn't worry about it :)

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ALaughAMinute · 08/07/2015 22:18

I had a boyfriend who liked his index finger sucked as it gave him an erection. I quite enjoyed doing it as I knew it turned him on.

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Sallystyle · 08/07/2015 22:36

I do this to my husband and I have never watched porn and very much against it.

I do it because I like doing it. Simple as that.

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Loobyloo15 · 09/07/2015 08:27

Lol don't be shy a bit of finger sulking won't kill you as long as he's not ramming them down your throat hehe. The 'taste your self' thing is totally hot! Hehe

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Loobyloo15 · 09/07/2015 08:27

*sucking

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differentnameforthis · 09/07/2015 11:48

Why is there always someone ready to blame porn when something crops up that they don't particularly like?

Sucking fingers isn't "porny" at all.

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FungusTheBogeymam · 09/07/2015 11:51

I quite like a bit of finger-licking/kissing/sucking.

But if you don't, tell him you don't.

And if he carries on regardless, bite him. Although he might have a thing about being bitten too ... hmm.

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nigelslaterfan · 09/07/2015 12:10

I think with a new person it might be nice to be asked, there's something so dominant about sticking something in someone's mouth. I like to choose what I stick in there.

It reminds me of the terrible head being pushed downwards.. I hate that feeling.... oh you want me to go down there, do you? Good hint with the head pushing!