I'm a bloke - can I post here?

[theroxbury]

I don't really have any burning issues or anything but just thought if I am allowed to post to give a mans view on things or if anyone wants a man's opinion an anything.

I'm a nice chap, nothing fancy, aged 33. I don't know how I even came across here but the only thin I want to say is that I like older/mature/ ladies!

Cheers!

[magiccatlitter]

No, I've had enough of "men's opinions"

[Lweji]

We already have our resident hairy trucker.

Not sure there's any need for any other men.

[handfulofcottonbuds]

Haha

OP, do you have any DCs? Do you have a DW? Are you carrying on with an OW?

Have you ever told someone to FOTTFSOFATFOSM?

The list of acronyms are at the bottom, my last one may not be on there

HTH

[Lweji]

Come to think of that, how would a MN dating site look like?

AIBU to look for a bloke who is happy to share finances, do his fair share of housework and is happy if he earns less than me?

[TiggyD]

You can post here. Just make sure all your posts start with "As a man..." so you're clearly identifiable.

I'm early 40s. Will that do? One thing, I do like the lights to be extremely dim when I meet people for the porpoises of romantic goings on. No reason.

[ImperialBlether]

at 'no reason'

[ItsaTenfromDen]

older/mature Do you mean experienced? :D

[LoisPuddingLane]

Teeth in or out?

[handfulofcottonbuds]

In all seriousness OP, it doesn't matter whether it is a woman or a man who offers their opinion on here, let alone if they're a parent.

A lot of the time we don't know if it is a man or woman posting (unless it's about mooncups, then you can be pretty sure it's a woman)

Your opening post was somewhat questionable but your subsequent ones show you realise that. If you're genuine then post again, all opinions are welcome

[theroxbury]

I daren't post again now as a result of being ridiculed haha bullies :p

@ handfulofcottonbuds - you got me!

[Lweji]

That's a risk we all take in MN.

[Sparklingbrook]

Name change. Then just go and post normally without reference to being a bloke or what age women you are into.

[tubbytimmy]

Nothing to add.

I'm at worra though

[teatrailer]

Easy to name change, start again, you get a fresh start. No chatting up though.

[handfulofcottonbuds]

I don't get it, are you genuine or not?

[Hassled]

There are male posters on MN who I didn't clock were men for months, possibly years. You don't need to advertise your gender.

Sometimes it's relevant and interesting to have a male point of view - on the "why is my husband acting like such a dick?" relationship threads, there has been some really useful input from men, thoughtful and insightful. But basically - if you have an opinion or can give advice, share it.

[IfNotNowThenWhen]

Tiggy that proper cracked me up

[theroxbury]

Ok I'll think about name change so I don't have to reference myself to a bloke. Maybe with same name but with "dude" at the end!

I love 90s music and a favourite film of mine is Night at the Roxbury - which inspired my username!

By the way I've just been pointed out to the Acronym page at the bottom. All is well! I'm going to look back to see if anyone has told me to "ODFOD!"

[Sparklingbrook]

No dude on the end.

[handfulofcottonbuds]

Haha, no, mine was have you ever told someone to fuckofftothefarsideoffuckandwhenyougettherefuckoffsomemore - not addressed to you though OP

[handfulofcottonbuds]

Oh blimey, no dude!!

Hey, wankbadger is a favourite name and I don't think it's taken yet

[HeartsTrumpDiamonds]

One of my clandestine namechanges has "the dude" in it

[handfulofcottonbuds]

Hearts - I never knew you were a man

[midnightvelvetPart2]

Hearts are you a bloke? I should have known actually, with 'trump' in your name

[DocHollywood]

Can we stop saying the word 'bloke'? I've never seen it here before and believe if we keep saying it, us women are only a short step away from being referred to as 'birds' and 'chicks' and then the site will have to be closed down.