I had twins 18 months ago and since then I have really gone off sex. We didn't have sex very often while I was pregnant but pre pregnancy had a good sex life.
I am just physically and mentally drained at the end of each day and have no desire to have sex. I do love my husband deeply and he is a fantastic father to our twins. He has been very understanding but I know he wants more than I am currently giving him. He isn't a very affectionate person so if we have a cuddle he thinks it will lead to something more which is too much for me at the moment. So I find myself avoiding all physical contract which is so sad as everyone needs a hug from time to time.
I don't know what to do or even if it is normal to feel like this. DH has even suggested we go for counseling but I aren't sure it is bad enough yet. Anyone else felt like this and do things return to normal?