Been with DP 8 yrs. 2 kids aged 4&2 and one on the way.
On Thursday I was sent into hospital with a possible blood clot on my lung. I was having heart palpitations, tight chest and laboured breathing. I was in hospital until 11pm when DP made it in. He sat like a teenager saying I was being dramatic and I'd just pulled muscles in my chest. Even if I had I wanted to make sure before I left. Had
To go in next day and DP was pissed off wit that. I'm wasting our time, I'm a hypochrondriac, I create all the drama in our relationship (even though we had a break and he slept with his ex, and he had snogged a girl at his work which he then continued to lie about their friendship for months and months. I know nothing else happened but he continued to speak to her even when I asked him not too) and on and on it went.
I have horrendous morning sickness and the last three weeks he has had to do most of the cleaning etc which he is now also moaning about. He can't talk to me without a raised voice. I tried to cook the kids lunch so it would stop him moaning about doing everything, and nearly fainted. When I called him to help, he then raised his voice at me saying "I just asked you to help and you said no and now you want it. What is your problem."
I just can't take it anymore. I told him I wanted to leave and he's said go for it but you aren't taking my kids. He doesn't take it seriously when I say I'm going because he knows I don't have the funds or family to do it. I'm so miserable, I just want to enjoy my life and he just wants to find fault in everyone and everything. I'm usually a strong girl but today I'm totally defeated I can't even argue back. He even called ME a twat in front of our daughter last night because our son was half way up the stairs and I shouted for him not to move. I'm sat here in tears and my heart is heavy. I just can't bare him anymore. What can I do.