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Lost friendship

4 replies

Lucy90 · 30/06/2015 20:05

Posting for advice please ladies
I had a very good friend, ill call her A.
We met at 16 working in a department store and became close friends very quickly. After we had both moved onto new jobs we remained close friends and met up regularly.
At 21 i we were still very close, i was by this time in a relationship with an older man who was very controlling and abusive. Due to this i let the friendship fade away. Ive been out of abusive relationship for over a year now and really miss A. Im not sure if i should contact her to try and fix things? Or what i could say to explain? Any advice appreciated

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molyholy · 30/06/2015 20:09

I think you should contact her. Apologise for losing touch and explain about why. Just tell her the truth. If it helps show her this thread. I think she will be really pleased to hear from you.

SoleSource · 30/06/2015 20:09

No harm in trying is there? Be prepared or the friendship to blossom or be a none starter. You'll only know if you contact her and when you meet up face to face. I do wish you all the best.

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Lucy90 · 01/07/2015 23:03

Thanks ladies, ive sent an email...just got to wait and see!

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Balders74 · 01/07/2015 23:16

Good luck Lucy. She will be so chuffed to hear from you. You may not get back the same close relationship but I think She will be pleased you got in touch. Let us know how it goes.

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