I recently met someone online. We've been on 3 dates and each one of these was a day long. I get on so well with him, and we talk for hours on the phone in between meeting. I think he's really kind hearted, opinionated (too much sometimes but I still like it!), and really engaging to talk to.
But I don't fancy him. I don't think. He makes my stomach flip when I see him and when I see his message pop up I feel a bit giddy, but when we are together, I can't see myself ever going beyond the kissing stage. He's slightly overweight (I know this sounds terrible!!), and I've never been with someone like that before, I don't know if that's putting me off. When he kisses me he makes me want to go further (I wouldn't at this stage), but I know deep down that when my hands are around his waist etc it's a bit off putting. Im really not focused on looks at all so this has come as a surprise to me. I feel confused.
Do you think this can/will pass? Anyone been in this situation before?
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Great guy, butterflies, but when it comes to sex, part of physique putting you off. Can you move past it?
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Wondabraaa · 30/06/2015 09:16
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