I've had a male friend for about 10 years. During that time we've both been in and out of various relationships. He's a really close friend in that I speak to him on the phone probably more than anyone else and he gives me a lot of advice and he knows really private things about me that nobody else does. I don't see him in person a lot though because he lives in a different area.
I've always thought we're just friends although some years ago he tried to kiss me and then pulled away. For some reason he brought it up years later saying that he pulled away because he didn't want to ruin the friendship we have. He has sent me text messages that seem to suggest he has some other feelings for me but I tend to ignore them because I don't really know how to deal with it.
Then last weekend I went to stay at his house. I always feel comfortable with him but I could sense there was some kind of unspoken tension and before I went to bed he kissed me on the mouth. Since then I have been thinking about him more and wondering if I have feelings for him I haven't acknowledged.
I think that apart from my children he probably cares more about me than anyone else. I'm not really sure whether I need to figure out my feelings. Or whether I should mention it.
I suppose this sort of thing is common between men and women?
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I can't work out how I feel about this friendship
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bodenbiscuit · 29/06/2015 10:55
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