OK, I have namechanged, because I feel pretty damn stupid, but here goes: DH got a fitbit at Christmas. He is absolutely obsessed. He spends many hours each day doing challenges and talking to people on it. I find that he is spending more and more time on fitbit and opting out of family life. We have older kids, so we do both get a lot of free time, however I would like him to actually enjoy spending some time with me, but he seems to want to spend his life on fitbit. He is quite flirty with his fitbit friends, he has always been quite flirty and it never used to bother me. However it is really really winding me up and making me feel quite insecure, which is so unlike me. I actually think this makes me sound a bit needy and pathetic, but I am feeling quite sad about the whole thing.