I've just had an epiphany!

[boughtpastry]

I've always thought my MIL and DHs relationship was a bit odd and over close and I don't know why it hasn't occurred to me before but I've just had a sudden realisation that she uses him as a husband not a son.
From my point of view their relationship is really affecting our marriage but how on earth do I say that without sounding like I'm making him choose, me or her! We've had a bit of counselling and the counsellor said that perhaps he has the relationship with his mum he should be having with meas his wife. How do we all move forward?

Sorry for all the typos my phone is playing up! Also I have not only ready made but ready rolled puff pastry in the fridge - so I'll expect a comment about that at some point

Odd she comments on you not making pastry yourself, when she outsourced parenting her own kid to a boarding school. I'd be making snarky comments right back, but I can be a bitch!

She does it because you are too nice to pull her up. Even just pause, count to 3 in your head and say "excuse me?" Every time she criticises you. Make her feel uncomfortable.

She's just walked into the bedroom but I'm already dressed so can't go down the naked route!

Have you actually said to her that you don't want her to do that? Why are you still allowing this when you don't want her doing it?