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Am I the one who messed up (or is messed up?)

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Lipgloss74 · 01/06/2015 21:54

I'm sorry to bore you again with this broken relationship saga.
I ended a fairly new relationship three weeks ago (ashamedly by text) because I felt I wasn't being treated properly, he never committed to plans, told me he has issues and was a weirdo, he drank too much (and drove) and generally left me feeling unattractive at times and anxious.
He asked if I would stay in his life as a friend and said no as I didn't think I could be much of a friend to someone I cared so much about as a boyfriend, I then sent him a list or all the weird and wonderful things that he has said or done to me when we were together, my intention was not to hurt him rather try and make him aware of the things he was doing to others as well as him self- he promptly blocked me. I probably deserved this but feel terrible now as I looked like I was spitting the dummy out over us ending and I'm annoyed at myself for not being mature enough to stay his friend.
I have a history of being with men who have some sort of issue that I try and fix and at first he appeared sorted, sadly it wasn't the case.
My son sent him a fb message just asking how he was but he's not read it. There's been NC at all.
Was I a bitch?

OP posts:
thecolourpink · 02/06/2015 19:03

Sounds like you've had a lucky escape. Cut all contact and don't look back.

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