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Isn't it great having an argument with a peed up F**kwit

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Radley · 11/11/2006 22:31

DH has JUST come in from being out since 1.30, absolutely out of his tree, abusive and cocky etc and throwing a paddy cos I won't let him sleep in our bed (because he pisses it), he has no fallen in a drunken slumber on the sofa and I face the task of dragging him off the sofa onto the floor as I won't have him on our new sofa.

I don't want to go to bed in case he decides to cook something or incase he comes up stairs (he couldn't get up our back 3 steps earlier) and falls through one of the kids bedroom doors.

Sooooooooooooo pissed off.

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vitomum · 12/11/2006 13:36

glad things have calmed a bit now. How is the relationship when he is not drinking?

AttilaTheMeerkat · 12/11/2006 16:00

Sorry but going to your friend's house does sound like you're putting your head in the sand in the hopes all this with husband will go away.

This relationship that you're in is not good for anyone least of all you. You sound like someone who just does not know what to do for the best and is thoroughly confused.

Can you actually answer why you are still with someone like this?.

For your sake as well as your children's you need to take decisive action and not keeping running away and or burying your head in the sand.

aweebitgross · 12/11/2006 19:40

Why was it ok to leave your friend in your house, in a situation you didn't want to be in? I wouldn't call that a friendly thing to do to her... but then again, My dh is never that pissed that he comes home and wets himself and makes me afraid of him, I am sorry to say he would be my EX-h if he did that.

fizzybubbles · 12/11/2006 22:00

I know it must be hard being in the situation, and from the experience of friends who have had kind of similar breakups, it is a really dificult and scary time, making the decision and carrying it out. Whatever he is like though seems like it's not the person you decided to live with way back whenever, and he can't be that happy either if he needs to get so pissed all the time. Whatever you decide to do, I hope you have a good support of friends / family to get you through it, and to help you to stick it out.

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Radley · 12/11/2006 23:21

We have been talkin ALL day, he still doesn't see what he has to apologise for (if he can't remember he doesn't need to apologise), I am going for a meet next week (to do with weightloss and not mn) and I am not coming home, i need time to think and be on my own. My mate was fab last night, he really cheered me up and panicked when he woke this morning and i wasn't there

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Radley · 12/11/2006 23:22

when i say be on my own, i mean i have to take the dd's with me, but will make it out to be an adventure

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JennyLeevesmilkandcookiesforSa · 13/11/2006 00:18

Good idea , hope you do that. It will be a nice break for you and your kids I'm telling you last year I went on holiday with out my dh and took my ds and it was lovely not having to think about dh's needs and whether he will be grumpy and spoil it or not and the longer you are away the less real your dh will seem lol well thats what I found lol

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