I dont want to say too much about my situation - but if anyone has read fab phee posts my situation is pretty similar, but been going on for a few months more. I have asked him to leave (although he is still in the house with me) which is pretty shit. When he goes he will move an hour away from us to be with someone new.
My kids have not yet started school - although they are set to in September. My problem is we only moved here very recently and I have nobody - literally noone to rely on for love and support at this time. Is it unreasonable of me to move away to be nearer old friends and family and to start again? A clean slate and a fresh start is what I want more then anything.
I want the kids to have an ongoing relationship with ex - they love him - and I know that will be more difficult if I move away - Im just very afraid of what will happen to me being so very isolated and vulnerable at this point. I am also ill and grieving my father who I lost at the begininng of the month.