I've hurt a friend and I don't know how to make it up to her?

[sherbetlemonD]

We work together. We have only known each other about 8 months- but we are close. I've disappointed her and I don't know how to make it up to her.

Was it unavoidable? Accidental?

Depends on what happened and her degree of disappointment.

What did you do?

Most things are recoverable with an apology and admitting you made the wrong choice.

It's hard to know what to advise without knowing more about your situation.

Have you tried talking to her about it?

Sorry- I posted before I meant to. Stupid iPhone.

I know this will out me- but ah well. Work has been tense for a few weeks- keep in mind that i'm a volunteer. Game playing by other volunteers and members of staff and with everything else i've got going on- it got too much. She texted me after I resigned to say "I wish you luck etc". I got pissed off and texted back saying "so much for being friends no matter what"

Went to see her today- anyway; i've at least got my job back but our relationship is v fragile. She's annoyed because I let other people push me out and she's disappointed in me because she thought I had her back. I had no idea she felt that way if i'm honest and it's cut me up.

Get it straight. You are a volunteer, job is done through llove and not salary.

If anything she should have your back!

Try apologising (lightly) and seeing if she can see it from your point of view, no bills are being paid from your end for a heap of hassle.

I dont understand why you were pissed at her and texted that in the first place.