Weird for me to be posting really but I need some advice. DH went out with his former works friends yesterday at 4 and isn't home yet. He's finally texted at 8:15 to say he had missed the last train and stayed with his friends on their sofa (I believe him, there isn't a cheating concern at all). When I replied to say "get yourself home then" my reply was "don't start, nobody died".
The thing is, how did I know that nobody died? I didn't get any replies to my texts asking if he was ok and he didn't answer my calls (didn't stalk him, called him once he wasn't home by 4am). This has happened before and IMO opinion it is just Rude, selfish inconsiderate and So disrespectful.
Do I take the DC out somewhere and book into a hotel without telling him where we are so he has a taste of his own medicine? I have to take them as I'm bf our 7 week old. Do I just rant and rave when he gets home? Ask them to choose between us and his friends? Punch him in the face?! Tell him he's not going out with these people again? Or is it a matter of sensible sit down and say I 'm prepared to leave him if he does it again (not sure if I would leave, this is the only thing that makes me unhappy).
I really couldn't go out and do the same to him as there's no way I would go out for that amount of time without contact.