Bit of background: I am NC with my parents as they are emotionally abusive narcissists who have said and done some terrible things to me. DH is (or rather, I thought he was, supportive about this and on my side). DH has a habit of saying things that aren't pleasant then making out that it's my fault and storming off and then sulking when I pull him up on things or get upset.
Last night he got back from work in a foul mood and started moaning at me as I was making a pasta meal and he wanted meat. When I said he was out of order speaking to me like that he said "You're just like your mother". I got upset and said not to ever say that again, and was crying, and he stormed out and said he needed to get away from me.
He got home an hour later and said he was sick of my attitude, and I told him to pack his bags, which is when he started backpedalling, saying I had taken it the wrong way (!!!).
I really feel like it's a dealbreaker and I cannot get past it. He knows how much I hate my mother and about how much abuse I've suffered and about how I have always tried so so very hard NOT to be like her!
Any advice? x