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Relationship ended and not named on deeds...

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worriedaboutsister · 18/05/2015 14:55

Not sure where to post this, but hoping someone can help.

My sister has recently broken up with her partner of 10 years. The relationship ended quite unexpectedly (my sister thinks the ex has met someone else) and it has resulted in her effectively being made homeless. She is understandably not thinking very logically but I wonder if anyone can advise on her legal position, if any.

She moved into her partner's property soon after they got together and they moved to a bigger property around 7 years ago. Property and mortgage was always in her partner's name as my sister had a poor credit history - though they were looking to add her to both deeds and remortgage as her financial/job situation is now much improved. She has paid a fixed monthly sum towards the mortgage and joint bills throughout the relationship. She also paid 50% towards renovations including a new kitchen and bathroom.

My sister came home from work one day last month and her partner told her the relationship was over, asked her to leave the house for some "time to think" and during this time changed the locks, bagged up some of my sister's belongings into bin liners, dumped them at a neighbours and is now refusing any further contact. Fortunately she is able to stay with our parents at the moment otherwise she would be out on the streets.

My question is whether she is able to claim back any of the money she's been paying into the house over the years and what do they do about joint assets including the pets they own together?

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worriedaboutsister · 20/05/2015 16:22

The sum we're talking is well into five figures.

Right now dsis doesn't expect anything. She isn't thinking much further than getting her belongings back and trying to make sense of what's happened. Longer term losing that amount of money is going to sting.

I absolutely agree about it being an expensive lesson. She was warned advised lots of times to get her affairs in order, but now isn't the time for "I told you so". Just want to help her make the best of a bad situation and aware of any legal options she has, if any.

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cestlavielife · 20/05/2015 22:26

10000 will soon be gone in legal fees. But if she can proove she paid say 20 k for the new kitchen....but She has had a roof over her head for 10 years..as a lodger. .unless there is strong evidence of intent that the property was joint . Public engagement. Emails about future plans. Hard to prove.

whatsagoodusername · 21/05/2015 08:27

It would be rather satisfying though to cost the ex £10000 in repayments to her, even if a lawyer did get it all. At least he doesn't have it.

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