Hi everyone, first time poster.
My husband basically left me about 3 months ago and is now living with his much younger girlfriend. I feel so much hurt and anger at him and want to know how to get over it as I know it's not helpful.
The relationship between me and him was wrong and i'm relieved for my own sake that it's over, however, i can't quite over how he's behaved since and i suspect, what he did before he said he wanted to separate. People had said before we split up that they suspected something was going on and I had my own suspicions but found out about their relationship quite by chance. He even admitted they slept together about 3 weeks after he left the marital home.( she was still living with her boyfriend!) I don't think the Maths adds up and suspect something was definitely going on before he left, if not physical, definitely mental.
My question is, why, if I don't want him, do I really care about these things and how do I move on. I've had a great life since he left, gone out loads with friends, even had a couple of dates myself but feel so much bitterness and resentment? I feel sad for my children and sad for what we used to have and the future I thought was going to be. What do I need to heal myself and move on (like he seems to have done so quickly!)
thanks for reading