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How to reassure my DD

29 replies

Untouchable · 17/05/2015 21:11

So my poor DD (8) has just told me that my husband told her he hates me and wishes he hadn't married me and one night he is going to leave. She is so upset and I have said not to take any notice as he always comes home from his golfing days in a foul mood (beer) and he doesn't mean it.
Pointless talking to him (did try) as it's all about him.
I don't want her feeling insecure. I don't know what to say.

He has no reason to say these things btw, I am a friggin saint. I put up with so much and receive nothing back in return.

Can't leave though.

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 18/05/2015 09:06

Imagine how a little girl feels to be subjected to that. Her world is no longer safe, she blames herself (my fault for wanting a story), she will worry that her parents will split and where she will live, the sand will feel very insecure under her feet etc

This kind of atmosphere ruins lives

BettyCatKitten · 18/05/2015 09:09

I'm in agreement witnAF
He's dispicable, emotionally abusing an 8 year old.
Please be a positive role model to your daughter.

AnyFucker · 18/05/2015 09:21

Untouchable did you have a namechange fail a few posts back ?

BuzzardBird · 18/05/2015 09:42

Sorry OP, multi site/thread fail. Blush

Hope you are OK? Glad to see you have the wheels in motion.

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