Grew up with a ea and narcisstic mother. Resulted in me having mh problems and a 7 year battle with self harm. Left home for good at 17. Frankly it was horrific and I'm still coming to terms with it all.
My mother had an affair last year and my step dad left and is trying to rebuild his life (my mum told lies about this only just found out the truth) but he's shell shocked and deeply hurt by her again lots of ea.
My sister is still living with mother. Mother is being ea to her now. It's like my childhood all over again. Dad is desperately trying to get accommodation sorted for them both as he had to leave sharpish.
I live quite far away now and I was wondering how best to support my family. So far I've arranged them to visit at the nearest opportunity and got snap chat so my sister can talk safely without any evidence of convos (yeah it's that risky for her to talk truthfully)
So how can I help them more? I really want to provide my sister especially with the support I didn't have. I don't wAnt her to have the terrible time I did.