Hold my hand please

[Wotsitsareafterme]

I'm waiting for a phone call in which I'm fairly sure my dp will end the relationship.
I know in the scheme of things it's not the end of the world but I know this will tip me over the edge mental health wise and I will really struggle.
I feel very guilty I should just be happy with my dds and I'm not.

What makes you think he will end the relationship!

What's the situation? How long have you been together? Is he your dds' dad?

Why is he going to end it, do you know?

Hugs

What can we say.

If he does, he does.

You are expecting it so it won't be a bolt out of the blue although I can understand you are going to be upset.

Can someone come and sit with you?

Why do you think he's going to end the relationship.

Do you feel that you have done something to bring this about.

Are you sure? Could you turn your phone off and maybe go to a friends/have someone round, just to take the pressure off?

Hey. It might be just as bad as you think. But it really isn't the end of the world.

I've been there a few times in my life and come out the other side every time. I'm now much more independent and happier.

Keep posting.

Not my dds dad. Almost a year. He went away on business last week. I knew he would be a bit distant whilst away. Gut feeling though we were together the day before and all was well. Since he got back Sunday he has been even more distant. I can't say for sure until he rings but I just can't shake the anxiety.

Our dc spend time together. We have been away as a family a few times. It feels so bad because of that. My dds love him.

On the other hand I hope he's direct and ends it. I have a feeling he might just cancel our weekend together on Friday and be cagey about it. I'd rather know and deal with it

Why do you think he's going to end it?
It sounds like a committed relationship if you all go away as a family? Him being a moody git for a week doesn't necessarily mean he is going to dump you. Although, maybe you should be having words with him for going all cold just because he's had to go away on business.

Is there another reason you think he will do this?

Just feels like the relationship has regressed for a while. I have asked him now and then and even offered to end it in the past but he has said no he wants to carry on but this last 10 days just so distant

It did end. We didn't love each other. Thank you for the nice messages. The waiting was awful but the split was almost a relief.

Oh I'm so sorry Wotsits. Sending you a virtual hand to hold.

Oh no Wotsits. Sorry to hear that

How are you today?

I'm ok. Feels like it's in the past. Think I have been getting over that split for a while as I knew it would happen. Sometimes the fear of pain is worse!

Yes you're right - uncertainty is really hard to deal with isn't it?

Be kind to yourself and know that you will be OK in time