So, H has seen the divorce papers yesterday which he crumpled up and threw on the floor. Last night he stayed at our other house-- the place I'm in is supposed to be going on the market, agents coming tomorrow.
All day I've had texts and calls for me to come out to see him (the other place is isolated) and I'm saying no. He says he wants me to bring the dog out because he's lonely. Then he's said he'll come back here and drink 6 bottles of wine and probably die in the night because he's so depressed if only.
I know it's all manipulative bollocks but I'm aware that WA say that abusive men often get worse at point of separation which is part of the reason it's taken me so long to get this far (papers have been back from court for a couple of months but I've been too timid to tell him). I just keep thinking I should appease him a bit, to keep it manageable. I just don't want a big blowout. Any advice?