I hate my life

[Azulejo9]

Another thread on here got me thinking and I just need perspectives or am I BU?
My Dp and I have not been getting along lately, together 15years and have DC together. Lately everything he does annoys me, tonight we rowed over the fact he left on the home PC ( it's in the bedroom) I put the kids to bed and turned it off. He came upstairs and starting shouting that I turned it off without saving his work! Starting calling me names: fucking cunt, fucking bitch etc.. I was lying on the bed with our youngest who heard all this.
He's forever leaving his clothes lying around (he doesn't work full time, maybe a day or two in a fortnight) I'm sick of hearing myself nag about the clothes/PC left on / shoes/ his crap lying around!
I've had enough of it now, I work fulltime and run the house I'm sick of my life and his name calling!
Am I been unreasonable or should I just leave the bastard, there's no fucking joy in my life right now

OP, he's isn't your DP. I was married for 38 years and I never call my wife a cunt. Children there or not.

What does he actually bring to your life? Not a lot from your post.

He's a loser and it'll only get worse.

Kick him out

Oh my god, those words are so offensive, and in front of children - even worse, for that alone I'd be leaving him.

Also, he works two days a fortnight - seriously, what a loser - and a bully.

YANBU

The man is abusive. And a waster.
The only thing he brings into your life is more work for you as you carry around his dead weight, and being bullied.
Your children are being affected by this - domestic abuse in the home scars children.

Listen to your instincts and LTB.