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ive had it with him

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samandkat · 03/05/2015 22:57

I have been part of a very happy and satisfying relationship with my partner of almost 4 years

But recently I have noticed that his behaviour has changed he has become more self centred and short tempered he has started treating me roughly not hitting but pulling me around expecting me to cook clean and look after two children (one of which is disabled) all by my self he says hes tired after a 10hour shift cleaning cars and even if I ask him to take out the rubbish it could end in an argument
He leaves his rubbish everywhere and dirty clothes then complains if I don't have them washed and dried for when he needs them

I've tried to leave his washing but it always comes back as me been lazy

I've pointed out that he needs to help me out a bit more but this hasn't ended well

I'm so stressed I'm missing sleep I love the man with all I have but I'm stuck I just cant cope

I cant take much more I might as well live on my own

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LaurieFairyCake · 03/05/2015 23:00

Why love someone like that? What's the point?

How little would you have to like yourself to think this is love?

It's not, it's abuse. He's being violent to you. Leave him.

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