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Need advise - phone text messages

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Whattodo1994 · 03/05/2015 20:22

My DP went out and took my phone on accident instead of his (same phones) and since he went there has been a lot of messages through from other girls.
Wrong I know but seeing these messages i snooped through previous conversations. And they are things like him telling girls they aren't fat but perfect and they checked them out so he should know. This has upset me but not sure wether I'm being unreasonable.
This isn't the first instance either as before messages have come which was meant for someone else saying about him giving them a back rub.
Please help am i being unreasonable. Just the overuse of ;) is worrying

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Mitzimaybe · 05/05/2015 19:37

I agree with everyone else. He is taking you for a mug and making you feel guilty about his misbehaviour on top of it all. It's not acceptable and you are not being unreasonable.

How is the relationship otherwise? Are you an equal, loving partnership? Does he take care of you as much as you take care of him? Or is he always "tired" after work and has you running round after him? Does he go out with his mates when he wants, but expects you to be there for him when he's home? Or am I way off the mark?

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