My husband left me and or son two and a half years ago for another woman. Since then he has come back to the marital home for three months and left again. I am REALLY struggling to let go. I have discovered that this woman is now pregnant and she and my husband had split up. As far as I am aware they have recently got back together and I just can't help wanting them to split up again so she can see how it feels to be left with a young baby. As far as I am aware she has moved out on him three times and(she claims) he has begged her to come back. In the recent turn of events he was working in London and his contract finished and he had no money and therefore returned to his flat in Nottingham. She lives in Notts and is working, so I guess he had the option of being on the dole alone or being on the dole and having her pay for day to day living costs as well as sitting on the dole.
She destroyed my life and I can't stop the immense anger and sadness taking over me constantly.
I should have know really that he would do this to me, as he walked out on his last partner with their seven year old and their four month old fighting for her life premature baby.
Just wanted to know if any MNs think this relationship with this woman will last. He says he loves his children but lives with no of them and has recently told me that he wants nothing to do with our son anymore(heartbreaking). I want to be able to let go but I just find myself sinking into a deeper depression pining for what used to be.