The new girlfriend....

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......I liked her!
Was hard today, had to take my boy to meet my ex at his new girlfriends house. Was a bit stressed out but she invited me in for a bit and we chatted, genuinely & nicely. She really made a lovely effort :)
Kinda sad as his brother was there and I miss ex & brother as friends. Just moving on I guess, it's taken 2 years but it all feels positive!
Would be nice if I could find a hug buddy but that may come.
Just wanted to put some positivity out there!!!

Yep I can relate my ex p has a new wife as of last week. She is lovely was invited to the wedding my son really likes her she's lovely to him too positive vibes here

I keep saying to myself "the more people in my daughter's life that care about her, like her, love her, the better".
I'm not sure I've convinced myself yet
But seriously - step family can be a real positive I think.
My XH spends more leisure time with our daughter now he's showing her off to the girlfriend, so that's good
Tbh, from what little I know I doubt I'd be friends with his girlfriend. But she does appear lovely to my daughter, so she is a positive, I guess.
I remind myself he could be with someone awful

My main difficulty with the girlfriend, is my discomfort at my knowledge that her lovely boyfriend (her view) my wanker of an XH (my view) is fucking prostitutes behind her back.

No way in hell is he going to let me have a quick coffee with her, in case she learns he did that to me!

My exh wife is by turn foul nasty and abusive then absolutely charm itself. When she's nice she's very very nice but when she's mean she's horrid takes all sorts and DD takes it in her stride. She has two gorgeous baby siblings who she adores so we all work together to try and keep it ticking over.

O god Cabrinha what a total shit, good for you that you got rid, poor her that she found him!