Stbxh has, in all his days - and in every text, email and correspondence, most notably since our separation, referred to our children as 'The Girls/The Boys, for example (deliberately obfuscating gender as EA has made me so overly paranoid and cautious). Their given names are never referred to by him.
Is this truly indicative of the raging PD (I believe) he has? (Ultra Narc, and then some - just my amateur 'diagnosis' though).
He always referred to his Mother and Father by their first names too.
Family history of alcoholism, drug abuse, sexual abuse - but all that negated by money, sense of superiority, and blindness to anything that contradicts their 'beliefs'.
Anyone have any knowledge, theories, or experience in this particular idiosyncrasy in relation to EA that could help me through a very difficult time currently?
TIA