When I was 8 my mum left my dad to be with his best friend and took me and my db with her.
She told us the evening before we left, we didn't have a chance to say goodbye to our friends and had to leave all our toys behind.
So next day we were living somewhere new with her new dp and Monday morning started at a new school.
We never discussed it and I cried every night for about a year because I missed my dad. I saw him very infrequently after that and once not for over a year.
Anyway I am currently single after a few disastrous relationships and dates and I'm trying to work out what is wrong with me/ how my thinking is warped. Why can't I have a happy straightforward relationship!
I've made some progress with other issues I've had but am stumped with this one!
How would this effect someone? I know it seems odd to ask strangers how I feel or think but I have a complete mental block about this and I guess sometimes it's easier to see things clearer from outside.