a second date or not? (a bit WWYD)

[discophile]

Had a first date with a man last week. Just loads and loads and loads in common. Didn't fancy him at all though. Should I see him again and see what happens; have a second date and find out if I feel a bit differently as time goes on. He is not sexy (to me). I want sexy. But sometimes things burn slower at first. What shall I do?

The chocolate was sprinkled on HIS cappuccino. Isn't that normal? Lots of places do that with cappuccino. He wasn't drinking my coffee.

If I don't go on a second date with this one, I'm going on a first date with another one. I'm very focussed at the moment. That's why I have to decide.

I think it's probably "yes".

I wouldn't put 'having chocolate on his cappuccino' on my must reject immediately criteria. Yes, I would say this is quite normal...

I'd go for a second date. Make sure you go Dutch if it's expensive (anything more than a coffee).

Not sure if it's a man thing but I've read somewhere and found it true for me that on meeting women some sort of primal instinct means we find the majority (loosely speaking) of people attractive. And over time this wears off hence being in lust.
I've started a new job and thought core all these ladies are crackers only to find that after a month or two I don't fancy any of them!
So if you really don't fancy someone straight away then alarm bells would ring.
Like I say it could be a man thing.. we are weird!

Not to say attraction can't grow but perhaps there has to be a little seed and from what you say there isn't even a seed.

That being said, no harm in a second date it's not like you have to commit to marriage!