So the perfect nosy opportunity presented itself to me at the weekend when my ex put this house on the market (the old marital home that I lived in)
He moved in his third wife in after less than a year of me leaving and he proposed to her before our divorce had been finalised, marrying her within 6 months of the divorce.
The house is exactly as I left it. Wallpaper is the same, all furnishings/furniture that I removed have been replaced identically, etc. When I lived with him I did all of the decorating myself so I can understand him not doing anything but if you were the new wife and moving into your ex's house, wouldn't you want to get the ex-missus' stamp on the place gone as quickly as poss? There's even the same candles that I bought, still in their same spot on the bathroom windowsill
Oh, and people have commented on his new wife being the spitting image of me.
Don't get me wrong, I left a controlling, manipulative, abusive cheating wotsit of a husband as many of you know so there's no pangs of affection there, and I relished in the opportunity to be nosy, we had no kids so I've never had reason to be back to that house.
But this is weird right?