Hello.
Have named changed for this but looking for some advice. Posting here as it seems to have greater footfall than divorce and separation.
I had a big blow out with my husband last night and am thinking about calling it a day, not for the first time. He is a good father, but he is very angry and I don't get treated with respect and I have got to a point where I feel like I, maybe we, would be better off without him. I just don't see how I can afford to leave, or have him leave and continue to live in London.
I work full-time, but couldn't afford to pay the mortgage on my own and if we sold the house when we split the proceeds I don't see that I would have money to buy somewhere for the three of us if we sold the house. The only way I can really see to do it would be to move back to where I grew up (about 200 miles away), which I don't want to do and would also make it difficult for him to see the children, which I don't want.
I can't see any way out, but then I suppose this is how it works - you wait until it gets bad enough that you have to jump in a direction you don't want to go because it's better than the alternative. I don't know what kind of advice I'm even hoping for really, but just trying to get my thoughts straight.