Uncle has last laugh

[jenk1]

It has been brought to our attention tonight that DH,s uncle has been phoning around the family telling of his "innocence" and that the police believed him all the time and how DH,s evidence wouldnt stand up blah blah.

AS you can imagine DH is very upset and i feel very angry, so angry that i phoned the person up who told DH this and said what i thought and also said what had really gone on and that the police did believe DH and that the DC was very very sorry and that its not helpful for DH to be hearing things like this.

This person is a friend/inlaw of DH and was very sorry when i spoke to them but i feel so angry at DH uncle.

We are trying to move on but how can we when things like this are going to happen?

I just keep saying to DH, it only takes one more person to say something against the uncle and that he will slip up one day..

I know it's easy for me to say Jenk but I think you really do have to try to cut any of DH's family who believe this shite completely out of your lives. And don't hold back on telling the truth when you have to because DH has done nothing to be ashamed of and a lot to be very proud of (though of course, it's disgusting that you should have to put people straight at all).

god, this man really is a piece of dirt, isn't he? and so is anyone else who believes his crap, to be honest... these are toxic people. i'm so sorry for you and dh that they are such repellent people.

Your DH is being so strong, and he is lucky to have someone as supportive as you. The truth will out, I am sure.

He is a bastard. Said it before and will say it again...he's not worth oxygen. I hope your Dh is keeping strong xxxxx

Last night DH went to visit his dad with the kids.

FIL said i dont know what to do about my car, it needs taxing etc and looked sideways at DH.

he then said he doesnt know what to do again as he,s not speaking to the uncle.
DH said nothing.

Thats FIL,s way of telling DH that the dodgy deals are starting back up.

I was absolutely livid when he came home and told me, i have told him im not going down there again unless he starts standing up to his dad and tells him what he thinks.

There is a family party tonight at FIL,s house and we are not going, i havent told DH what to do but i said that im not going and as DS and DD hate fireworks they are not going and so he has said that he wont go.

There are no words to describe how my inlaws make me feel.

Uncle has the last laugh for now.

Very important point, LGJ.

Jura, stay strong, keep posting and know that there are lots of MNers here for you. This man is scum - your DH is lucky to have you on his side.

Sorry Jenk.

I'm a dope. I meant Jenk and said Jura.

Will engage brain next time