I posted here several times during the last two years...May have name changed.Anyway it was all about my selfish partner who became increasingly selfish over the last few years and especially after we had children together.My wants or needs didn't come into the picture at all.I tried to make it work...tried to get over the arguments every weekend but there is no changing a selfish person.Anyway I went and did something that I had wanted to do for a very long time ...it meant a better quality of life for myself and the children.I felt happier than I had been in years.He told everyone that he was very happy for me to do this but at home it was clear that he was anything but.Our sex life has been very poor as I have felt no desire...it's hard to feel like being intimate with someone when you are exhausted and they don't really engage or show any love towards you.Anyway the other night I tried but the baby woke twice in between and each time I want to settle baby or Breastfeed and back into him...in the end I just felt like a piece of meat and explained how I felt.He exploded into a rage and told me how he was sick of me paying him lip service and to F off for myself.He said he would stay up all night with the baby if it meant we could have sex...he has never offered to do a night time in two years...hence the exhaustion on my part.he stormed off saying he was going to be up all night now and he may aswell do some work and what's the point In any of this because all he does is work work work....