I joined a club and a guy there has made many a suggestion as to how we could me more than friends. I've knocked him back every time but from some of the stories he tells it sounds like he's had years of either cheating or at least trying to cheat on his wife. It's awful and I've even mentioned her to him to try and make him realise, I wee'd all over the toilet seat to put him off but nothing seems to work. How do you get through to a guy who is low level harassing you without making a scene?