One of my friends is really starting to get on my nerves lately.
Firstly she is very nosey, asks how I have afforded things and digs deep enquiring about finances. My 2nd car was parked elsewhere for 2 weeks and she quizzed me to see where it was down to every detail as if I had sold it and tried to hide the fact. She asks me how much everything I have costs, about my income etc.
Secondly. She always wants to borrow my stuff! I have no problem helping mu friends, but it's alk the time. I bought a brand new strimmer and the next day she asked to borrow it. She now asks rather then buying her own, which I think is rather cheeky. I also bought a carpet washer last year, her dog pees allover and she borrows it all the time!
AIBU to expect that she should buy things like this if she needs them on a regular basis? It's not like she's struggling financially, she's in a better position then me! Sometimes she has my carpet washer for months on end!
Another time I borrowed her my designer bag for a night out, she didn't give it back for weeks and I kept seeing her out and about with it!
I'm not a greedy person, but IMO it's all rather cheeky. Things like strimmer and carpet washers don't last forever and she's using them more then me!
I often borrow things to family and friends, I wouldn't mind if she wanted to borrow something as a one off as hers broke. But using my things all the time rather then buying her own is starting to wear thin.