My ex doesnt know Im with my dp, for a lot of reasons that involves the past and our history, which is just rather complicated.
However, me and dp are talking about when dp moves in. Hes afraid that ex will tell dd that dp broke up her mummy and daddy, and try to get her to hate him. Ive been reassuring dp as hopefully dd will listen to me more, and as dp will be living with us, shell be use to seeing him more, and hopefully grow to love him as another family member.
Plus ex may have a gf (he wont admit it but I think he does) but even if he hasnt, there will be a time when he does, and she may want to be involved with dd too. So in my mind, ex wouldnt want to start saying bad things about dp because I could just as easily start saying bad things about his gf. But I dont want it to get like that. I just want us to all get along.
Anyone else been in this sort of trouble? How do I go round telling ex, and how do I make ex understand that I dont want him upsetting dd and putting thoughts into her head about dp?