DH's EA ended completely with him cutting all contact with OW two and a half years ago. It was an EA plus kissing. However he says he still thinks about her sometimes although less frequently than he used to. The worrying part is he says although he doesn't think about her as much, when he does his feelings for her are just as intense as when the EA happened. I don't really want to share his head space with another woman all this time later. We have 2 Dc and am trying to make things work - married nearly 20 years. Bought him an easter egg on Sun with his favourite chocs inside and he just stared at me blankly and said he didn't want it and I should not of bothered - he's a bit weird with gifts. This annoyed me and I have started dissecting our relationship in my head this week. We're going for more counselling next week after a long break from couples therapy. Told him that he needs to wear a wedding ring (he lost his years ago). I said wearing one was non-negotiable to send signal to other women that he was taken- he said he'd buy a 10 pound ring from Argos and would wear one if he had to but then listed 10 reasons why it would be a problem (doesn't like wearing rings, might lose it again etc). He's generally a good faithful guy, good dad etc and is shocked at himself that he had EA but past and recent behaviour is not giving me the reassurance I need!! Help!